Oh…I mean senses of humor. We have survived with our marriage in tact, partly because of our collaborative sick and twisted way of looking at things. Things we find funny that others probably won’t:

During a quiet moment in the car on date night Julian said to me “you know, I would never kill you…because I am not doing this alone” and I thought it was hysterical.

Gage & Quinn are on more BP meds then our parents.

When we meet people at parties we ask them their blood type.

I refer to Julian as my other recessive half.

We often refer to the “in sickness and in health” part of our marriage vows in a “what were we thinking agreeing to that?” kind of way.

Shortly after the kids were diagnosed with ARPKD I looked at Julian and sweetly said “you know, I wouldn’t want to go through this with anyone but you” and after a little thought said “wait a minute – I wouldn’t be going through all of this if it wasn’t for you.”